Wednesday, July 6, 2011
10 Myths About Introverts
It's My LifeFrom this website http://www.carlkingcreative.com/10-myths-about-introverts
Myth #1 – Introverts don’t like to talk.
This is not true. Introverts just don’t talk unless they have something to say. They hate small talk. Get an introvert talking about something they are interested in, and they won’t shut up for days.
Myth #2 – Introverts are shy.
Shyness has nothing to do with being an Introvert. Introverts are not necessarily afraid of people. What they need is a reason to interact. They don’t interact for the sake of interacting. If you want to talk to an Introvert, just start talking. Don’t worry about being polite.
Myth #3 – Introverts are rude.
Introverts often don’t see a reason for beating around the bush with social pleasantries. They want everyone to just be real and honest. Unfortunately, this is not acceptable in most settings, so Introverts can feel a lot of pressure to fit in, which they find exhausting.
Myth #4 – Introverts don’t like people.
On the contrary, Introverts intensely value the few friends they have. They can count their close friends on one hand. If you are lucky enough for an introvert to consider you a friend, you probably have a loyal ally for life. Once you have earned their respect as being a person of substance, you’re in.
Myth #5 – Introverts don’t like to go out in public.
Nonsense. Introverts just don’t like to go out in public FOR AS LONG. They also like to avoid the complications that are involved in public activities. They take in data and experiences very quickly, and as a result, don’t need to be there for long to “get it.” They’re ready to go home, recharge, and process it all. In fact, recharging is absolutely crucial for Introverts.
Myth #6 – Introverts always want to be alone.
Introverts are perfectly comfortable with their own thoughts. They think a lot. They daydream. They like to have problems to work on, puzzles to solve. But they can also get incredibly lonely if they don’t have anyone to share their discoveries with. They crave an authentic and sincere connection with ONE PERSON at a time.
Myth #7 – Introverts are weird.
Introverts are often individualists. They don’t follow the crowd. They’d prefer to be valued for their novel ways of living. They think for themselves and because of that, they often challenge the norm. They don’t make most decisions based on what is popular or trendy.
Myth #8 – Introverts are aloof nerds.
Introverts are people who primarily look inward, paying close attention to their thoughts and emotions. It’s not that they are incapable of paying attention to what is going on around them, it’s just that their inner world is much more stimulating and rewarding to them.
Myth #9 – Introverts don’t know how to relax and have fun.
Introverts typically relax at home or in nature, not in busy public places. Introverts are not thrill seekers and adrenaline junkies. If there is too much talking and noise going on, they shut down. Their brains are too sensitive to the neurotransmitter called Dopamine. Introverts and Extroverts have different dominant neuro-pathways. Just look it up.
Myth #10 – Introverts can fix themselves and become Extroverts.
A world without Introverts would be a world with few scientists, musicians, artists, poets, filmmakers, doctors, mathematicians, writers, and philosophers. That being said, there are still plenty of techniques an Extrovert can learn in order to interact with Introverts. (Yes, I reversed these two terms on purpose to show you how biased our society is.) Introverts cannot “fix themselves” and deserve respect for their natural temperament and contributions to the human race. In fact, one study (Silverman, 1986) showed that the percentage of Introverts increases with IQ.
IF YOU DIDN'T ALREADY KNOW, I AM AN INTROVERT. Myth 1 -10, I agree on everything almost 90% or even more.
Monday, June 27, 2011
Taiwan Touched Our Hearts
It's My Life, TripsIt has already been 2 week since I came back from my trip to Taiwan. The trip was superb and everyone had a great time, I'm quite sure. All thanks to our organizer and planner Miss Ting Shing Yee and Mr. Ng Zee Kim, our beloved classmates who made this trip mission possible. They did everything from booking the plane tix, ground arrangement tour, booking the homestays, getting us youth travel pass and all. Really thankful to the both of them for making everything so easy for us. And thanks to our Driver and Tour Guide, Peter. He was awesome. To not also forget, the 21 other classmates and trip members who had made this trip so joyful and memorable. Thank you is the only phrase I could think of saying right now. So thank you.
Below are the pictures from my trip which I have selected from a total of 700 pictures. But I had only chosen 180 pictures for this post. So, I'm very sorry for this long picture-based post. BEWARE, cause it's going to be REALLY long. If you don't want to get bored, can just close this page right now. But you could also opt to scroll down quickly and get mesmerized by Taiwan. So, lets begin....
Day 1 (2/6/11)
Group photo before boarding at LCCT
Our first destination after touching down was actually our first homestay in Feng Jia(Taichung)
This picture was taken in front of Feng Jia Night Market
The boutiques in Feng Jia looks nice but too bad we did not have time to shop there. Things are also cheaper in Feng Jia compared to the night markets and shops in Taipei city.
The famous "Big sausage wrap small sausage"
It was just ok for me.
Express manicure for only NTD 100(RM10)
Feng Jia University
Top Left: Big sausage wrap small sausage
Top Right: 6 inch ice cream
Bottom Left: Huge Takoyaki ball
Bottom Left: Sweet potato balls (yums)
Day 2 (3/6/11)
Mine and June's room in Feng Jia Homestay
Breakfast with the girls
Our first stop on the second day is a shop(Chun Shui Tang) which is famous for their pearl milk tea
So lucky to take picture with 2 leng luis.. June and Shing Yee
Second stop was Formosan Aboriginal Village
They have indoor & outdoor theme park in a cultural village

I think I was at the last row >.<
Eventhough I had the rain coat on, my whole face was drenched because I sat on the sides



The hut was very small, and since I was the smallest in this entire trip, Peter asked me to go up there.. haha
Bamboo rice(yums)
Then we took the cable car to go over to Sun Moon Lake
Ok sorry, this pic was supposed to be before the cable car pic..
In the cable car with SY, June n taikor(Min Whu)


